Thursday, September 26, 2013

September Sailing Clinic




 

Once again taking place in San Francisco last week, Hope For The Warriors® conducted their fourth wounded veteran sailing clinic over the past two years. Still in its infancy, this program has evolved from a simple idea into one of our most powerful programs. With the first clinic serving five veterans and focusing mainly on sailing, it has evolved to this most recent clinic which served nine veterans and consisted of sailing, yoga, pottery, music, nature hikes and more.
 
Arriving on Tuesday afternoon, the group traveled to Oakland for an introductory meet and greet dinner. Bright and early Wednesday morning, the vets all hopped on Tony Haworth’s 47-foot cruising sailboat Knot Tide Down and commuted to San Francisco over the water. Once at the docks in San Francisco, half of the group sailed small dinghies with BAADS (BayArea Association of Disabled Sailors), while the other half sailed the 47-footer across San Francisco Bay and back. The vets were ecstatic to sail alongside the two America’s Cup finalists, who were out practicing.



Back at the docks, the group traveled to The Pad yoga studios in San Francisco, where they participated in an intensely powerful meditative yoga session with locally renowned yogi Nicole Cronin. A survivor of a traumatic experience that resulted in a broken back, she connected with the vets on a very personal level and offered up wisdom that resonated with several of the still-healing vets.

 

After a profoundly therapeutic experience, the group drove over the Golden Gate Bridge and ate lunch at a scenic vista on the north side of the Bridge. After lunch, the group went on a nature hike at Muir Woods National Monument, enjoying the serenity and relaxation offered by the 1,200 year old coastal Redwoods of California.


 

On Thursday, many of the vets again opted to commute over the water, riding the San Francisco ferry to the clinic. While waiting for breeze, the vets learned about sailing in a 1-hour classroom session before sailing dinghies in McCovey Cove until lunch time. After lunch, the group again enjoyed a beautiful day of sailing on the Bay, commuting home from the clinic via 47-foot sailboat. By the end of the sail, the group was working well as a team and tacking and gybing the boat almost all the way home.
 



Thursday night, the vets enjoyed a catered dinner at Jered’s Pottery studio before receiving a pottery class from Navy veteran and local potter Jered Nelson. After the class, Berkeley’s own Horrible String Band played bluegrass music while the vets had access to several pottery wheels and could throw clay to the live music. With a couple hours of practice and instruction, the vets created pots, bowls, mugs and plates, despite a couple of the vets only having use of one hand. The guys loved it!
 



Friday morning’s first activity was a 45-minute outdoor yoga session, led by instructor Leila Burrows , also of The Pad studios. This session was much more physical and challenging than the day before, but intensely therapeutic. Once again sailing until lunch, the group broke to watch live America’s Cup racing in San Francisco.
 




After lunch, the clinic split up into two groups and took out matching Santa Cruz 27 sailboats, courtesy of Spinnaker Sailing. The group sailed up the city front, past New Zealand’s America’s Cup base and to the Bay Bridge before turning back. The group had to fight a strong current back to the harbor and then sailed laps around McCovey Cove. That evening, the vets again had a catered dinner and then enjoyed a sunset sail on an 84-foot charter vessel, again courtesy of Spinnaker Sailing.






After the clinic, the feedback and energy emanating from the group was overwhelmingly positive and profound. After a week full of new experiences in an area like San Francisco Bay, the vet’s eyes were all wide open. The stoke was high!

We are creating a different kind of buzz out here on the West Coast, and it’s because of the way that the Bay Area has embraced these veterans and this program. This clinic could not have taken place without the support of the Commandary of St. Francis Order of St. John, Knights Hospitaller and the Cromar Charitable Supporting Organization. Hope For The Warriors® would also like to extend our deepest gratitude to Drew Harper and Garrett Greengalgh of Spinnaker Sailing, all BAADS volunteers, Tony Haworth,  Nicole Cronin and Leila Burrows of The Pad yoga studio, Jered Nelson and Jered’s Pottery, members of the Horrible String Band and all of the family members and supporters who have helped make this program possible. Finally, thank you to the Fisher House and their Hero Miles program.  Through this organization, our veterans were able to fly to San Francisco.

This program is a collaborative effort between three veterans; Walt Kotecki, Don Gray and Ronnie Simpson. The program will continue moving forward in 2013 with a renewed focus and some exciting new goals!

Tuesday, September 10, 2013

Military Family Day with NWTF


Join Hope For The Warriors® and the National Wild Turkey Federation® for an event for the entire military family.  Outdoor skills stations will teach skills to family members of all ages.

Attendees will receive a free on year membership to NWTF!

Thursday, August 29, 2013

In Their Shoes: An Experiential Training on Military Culture and the Military Child




By Katie Tame, MS and Vicki Lane, MSW, LCSWA
(Hope For The Warriors® Staff Members)

Camp Hometown Heroes has made it their mission to embrace the children of the fallen. The inaugural launch of Camp Hometown Heroes was June 22, 2013 and more than 60 children (ages 7-17) of fallen U.S service members arrived at YMCA Camp Matawa in Campbellsport, Wisconsin. The camp affords these children the traditional camp experience emphasizing friendship and fun, but also incorporates personal growth and healing. While traditional camp activities such as campfires, horseback riding, swimming and team sports are offered, the camp also arranges for pediatric grief counselors from Kyle’s Korner to provide counseling, group support and art therapy.  

Camp Hometown Heroes Co-Founder, Neil Willenson, reached out to Hope For The Warriors® with a request: to deliver on-site training in military cultural competency and the unique experiences and needs of the military child to the more than forty YMCA camp counselors staff from Kyle’s Korner.
Hope For The Warriors® was honored to partner with this nonprofit organization and develop a specialized training for the YMCA camp staff who dedicated themselves to providing a fun, memorable, and therapeutic experience for these military children who have sacrificed so much and endured great loss.





THE IMPORTANCE OF MILITARY CULTURAL COMPETENCY

Did you know that only 1% of the American population serves in the military? As a result, a 2012 survey indicates that 41% of military families felt that their community did not embrace opportunities to help the military child (source). With 70% of military families living in civilian communities and not on military installations (source ), most of us have, or will, professionally or personally encounter a member of the military.
Many civilian professionals who work with veterans, active duty service members, and military families are encouraged, and in some cases even required, to participate in military cultural competency training. Even service members are provided with cultural competency training so that they can quickly adapt, communicate and honor the culture and traditions of foreign communities they are working within.
Clinicians, advocates, educators, co-workers, friends, and family members alike, who are committed to the welfare of our military families, quickly recognize the value and benefits of increasing their knowledge of military culture. The overarching goal is to effectively communicate, engage, understand and successfully interact with the individual. Here are some examples:

v  Patient-to-client rapport can be fostered, and as a result, clinicians can provide better tools, resources and effective treatment options

v  Greater understanding of the unique experiences of military families by being able to place them in a larger context and realize that military service is not merely a job, but a way of life

v  Shared vocabulary contributes to effective and efficient communication and interactions, which in turn minimizes the need to explain military terminology and acronyms

v  Cultivate empathy and implement supportive measures

v  Recognize the unique stressors and/or challenges that military members, spouses and children face as opposed to their civilian peers

v  Deepen appreciation for service and sacrifice through awareness

v  Establish and inspire community support for healthy reintegration





CONTENT and DESIGN
In Their Shoes
While each Hope For The Warriors® Military Cultural Competency training program can be tailored to fit an organization’s purpose or objectives, the course generally presents a basic understanding of the values, structure, policies and expectations of the military. Featured information includes, demographics and statistics, the military branches of service along with their missions and core values, rank and structure, active versus reserve status components, military terminology and acronyms, traditions and processes, and the many individual and family sacrifices that come with military service (deployment, injuries, suicide, death).

The training designed for Camp Hometown Heroes placed a special emphasis on the military child, their unique experiences, and how practitioners are approaching clinical work with grieving military children with trauma-focused care in mind.
It is our belief that profound and impactful learning occurs when the individual is an active participant in the process. Therefore, the training was developed and conducted through an experiential framework in an effort to avoid merely imparting information, but instead, to engage the participants. This was achieved by utilizing a wide array of original creative activities and integrating a variety of learning and teaching styles.  

We had great fun crafting an environment modeled after the military branches and culture. This was the first step in placing the group members “in the shoes” of military personnel. This replication included dividing the group members into a branch of service and assigning them with a rank. They were responsible for not only becoming experts on their respective military branch, but learned very quickly that there are very specific responsibilities and duties assigned to each rank and that hierarchical order is essential to the successful functioning of such a large scale organization.
We then  put them “in the shoes” of the military child.  We asked them to imagine not seeing their mothers, fathers, uncles, brothers or sisters for months or even years at a time, especially during crucial developmental years; and we disrupted them by relocating them around the room throughout the training, which exemplified the inconvenience that most military children feel due to moving on average at least 9 times by the time they are 18. Personal stories were threaded throughout the training as a means to not only authenticate the content, but to also create a deeper emotional connection. We were very privileged to interview a former Military Child of the Year, Nicole Goetz (USAF), and shared her insight, experiences, challenges, and rewards growing up as a military child.




One of Nicole’s particularly insightful remarks was in reference to how her family spoke about deployments and the inherent risks that come with military service:

“Before my father’s first deployment to the Middle East, he sat my 7 year old brother and 14 year old self down and asked us who would we want to be our guardian in the event something were to happen to him while he was overseas. 

My brother and I matured a lot that day. We stayed calm when discussing these matters with my parents because that was the best thing we could do.  Our job as kids is to be strong and supportive for our parents. We could not change the course of events that were about to take place, but we could have a mature attitude and hope and pray for the best. 

This and the other questions that followed were not ones a child should have to answer, but unfortunately, these risks and consequences are something military families must face.”

For civilian children this conversation is relatively foreign, but for the nearly 2 million military children, difficult conversations such as this and the subsequent challenging realities are commonplace. They face orders to move, deployments, integrating into new schools (to name a few) but they meet these encounters with pride, maturity and resiliency.
There are many valuable online training resources available including the United States Department of Veterans Affairs (source), Essential Learning (source), Center For Deployment Psychology (source).

If your group is interested in specialized on-site Military Cultural Competency training please contact Hope For The Warriors®. Please review the testimonials below.

 
“We really enjoyed our time with Vicki and Katie!  They presented the Military Cultural Competency training with tons of energy and passion.  We were all very engaged for the whole time and learned a ton.  The training really helped all of us non-military folks have a sneak peek into the unique challenges and needs of military families and children.  Vicki and Katie truly helped us prepare to serve this amazing group of kids at Camp Hometown Heroes. Thanks so much for all the work you both do for these amazing families!

–Wendy Mieske, Camp Operations Director, YMCA of Metropolitan Milwaukee-Camp Matawa

“Thank you to you and Vicki for everything you contributed to Camp Hometown Heroes…the week would not have been as complete without you.  I know all of us, counselors especially, gained valuable knowledge from you in how to respond to our campers.  Many of their parents have expressed gratitude for the changes they see in their children since they returned home.  Finally many of them are facing what they couldn't face before and are more able to move forward with their lives.  They gained a valuable perspective, not to mention many news friends and bonds with camp.  I think they'd come back tomorrow.  Thank you so much for your wonderful presence. “

-Debbie Paschke, Director, Camp Hometown Heroes

 
Below are some recommended websites that will help you become more aware of the issues that military children face and the resources available to them.



Military KIDS Connect

Our Military Kids

Sesame Workshop



Wednesday, August 28, 2013

Two For One--Join Us for Two Races in NJ



We have TWO great races coming up in New Jersey in September. On Sunday, September 15, we have the 3rd Annual Harmon Meadow Run For The Warriors® (Secaucus, NJ) and then one week later, we will host the New Jersey Auto Retailers Run For The Warriors® (Holmdel, NJ) on September 22. 

Now through the end of the Labor Day Weekend, we have a special deal!  Register for both races for the price of one. That's $30 for two 5K races! (Use discount code:  R4WNJ2)

Why Run?

Both races will honor those who have served and sacrificed for our freedoms. We will also honor and support families of the fallen.  The Harmon Meadow Run For The Warriors® is being held in memory of SPC Rafael Nieves, Jr., USA.  However, all service members and military families will be honored.

The New Jersey Auto Retailers Run For The Warriors® race will be held at the New Jersey Vietnam Veterans' Memorial--a beautiful and meaningful location.

We hope that each of you in the area can attend one or both of the runs and join us in honoring our military.

Not in New Jersey?  Find a Run For The Warriors® in your area or join Team Hope For The Warriors® and add inspiration and meaning to any athletic event.


Friday, August 23, 2013

Core Challengers: Meet Christine



Have you read about the Do More With Your Core Challenge?

Meet another one of our challengers.

Name:  Christine

From:  New Jersey

Background:  Christine and her husband Bill raised three children and were a close family.  Their son, Steven, was killed in action on March 3, 2008 in Afghanistan.  Two years later, their daughter Lynne died from suicide.  The Koch family have been an active Gold Star family, dedicated to remembering both of their children and supporting wounded service members and military families.

"I am doing this Core Challenge because it helps me take the pain from heart, even if it's just for a short time. I will do just about anything Tina (Hope For The Warriors staff member) asks of me. I truly do not believe I would be here if I had not met Tina. I really mean that. I believe in these causes.  The war might be winding down, but our soldeirs will suffer for the rest of their lives."

Donate to her Core Challenge Page Today!

Wednesday, August 14, 2013

How to Find Companies Committed to Hiring Veterans



 
Introducing Rachael McDermott, a career coach at Harvard University Graduate School of Education.  She volunteers through Hope For The Warriors® and will be hosting a webinar next Tuesday titled Navigating LinkedIn.
Today she highlights ways to find companies that are hiring veterans.
 
Many companies have committed to hiring veterans - at least they say they will.  I’m sure effectiveness of these programs varies but veterans could take advantage of this goodwill by seriously considering these companies as potential employers.  How can you find these companies?
Military.com has a Veteran Jobs section with a listing of military friendly employers.

GI Jobs Magazine features a listing of top 100 military friendly companies.
Check out the 100,000 Jobs Mission, a coalition of top employers committed to hiring 100,000 veterans by 2020.

Simply google “corporate military recruiting program” or “corporate veteran recruiting program” to see what else comes up. 
Join the website LinkedIn to access groups devoted to transitioning military or veterans.  Recruiters at companies that want to hire military often post job openings in the groups and you can connect with them and send them messages through the site.

Similarly, the Hero2Hired site features industry groups where veterans and employers can interact and recruiters post jobs.
Check out as many veteran career fairs as possible.  Get connected with veteran service organizations like Hope For The Warriors® as many have employment programs and connections with employers wanting to hire veterans.  Here in Massachusetts, there are career centers statewide each with a veteran’s representative to work with you.  Sometimes employers connect with these reps to conduct recruiting/hiring events with the veterans the rep is working with.  The VA vocational rehab folks are another similar resource. 

If you are in the Guard or Reserves, your state’s branch of ESGR (Employer Support of the Guard and Reserves) may be able to connect you to employers in touch with their offices to hire from the Guard and Reserves.  Find your state’s contact here.  Our Mass ESGR office has an email list featuring job postings and career fairs and sometimes organizes events with employers to meet service members.

For tips on how to research these companies further and contact them, please attend my webinar on using the website LinkedIn for job searching on Tuesday, August 20th at 5:30 pm EST.  You'll need good internet connection and a way to listen - either with a headset or computer speakers.  Contact Katie Tame at ktame@hopeforthewarriors.org for more information or to sign up for the webinar.
 

For more job searching advice and resources, please follow my blog: http://civilianchick.tumblr.com/

 

Tuesday, August 13, 2013

Core Challengers: Meet Amy F.


Have you read about the Do More With Your Core Challenge?

Meet another one of our challengers!

Name:  Amy F.

From:  Upstate New York

Background:  Amy was introduced to Hope For The Warriors® through the "Salute to Freedom" event, hosted by the Cortlandt Yacht Club in Montrose, NY.  After that event, she ran a race for the organization, raising more than $1,000. 

“I was touched by the wounded vets [I have met in the] past couple years. As an American, I am proud to support Hope For The Warriors.”