Thursday, February 28, 2013

Fall 2013 Spouse/Caregiver Scholarships

Hope For The Warriors® has posted the application for spouse/caregiver scholarships for the Fall 2013 school semester.

The Spouse/Caregiver Scholarship Program identifies, recognizes, and rewards spouses/caregivers for their strength, fidelity, and resolve despite adversity. Scholarships aid in continued education at a reputable, accredited university, college, or trade school for spouses/caregivers as they assume critical roles in the financial well being of their families.
Scholarship awards are made payable to the scholarship recipient's institution for payment of tuition, books and supplies.

Scholarship awards in the amount of $1,000 will be made payable to the scholarship recipient's institution for payment of tuition, books and supplies.  The application process is the same for new and previous applicants.


Fall 2013 Scholarship applications must be postmarked by Friday, March 29.
 
 
 
Get more information on the scholarship here.
 

Wednesday, February 27, 2013

Make a House a Home

Marrocco at the Got Heart, Give Hope Gala in 2011
On Easter Sunday 2009, Army Specialist Brendan Marrocco's vehicle took a direct hit by an explosive fired projectile.  Against all odds, Brendan survived and became the first quadruple amputee from the war to survive.  Marrocco is from Staten Island and planned to return as soon as he could leave the medical facility.  The Siller family and the Tunnel to Towers Foundation, also based in New York City, stepped up to build a home for their hero.

Hope For The Warriors® quickly agreed to help by furnishing the home.  The work was part of our program A Warrior's Wish® and we titled the Wish, Make a House a Home.  Brendan's home was completed in June 2011.

Since that time, the Siller family has continued to build homes for the most severely wounded and Hope For The Warriors® has continued to support this program.  In 2013, we have commitment to supporting five homes at an amount of up to $50,000 per home. 

Staff member with Todd and Crystal Nicely in their new home

Homes for 2013 were announced at a press conference held in Tampa on Wednesday, February 13.  We attended, excited to meet the men in person.  In addition to being a part of their homes, we have helped some through other programs such as Critical Care Coordination, granting a Wish by donating a bed, Hope & Morale events, and more. 


Beyond Make a House a Home, Hope For The Warriors® will continue to assist through our ten other programs.  A new home is just the start of our relationship as we aim to restore self, family and hope for each military family.

Learn more about A Warrior's Wish®

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Monday, February 25, 2013

Leadership Under Fire



Today's blog is about Major Jason Brezler, USMC/FDNY and founder of Leadership Under Fire, Inc. Hope For The Warriors® is proud to help support the Leadership Under Fire team through the college initiative program.





In 2006-2007, an infantry battalion of U.S. Marines found themselves locked in a lethal fight against disenfranchised Sunni Iraqis and fanatical Al Qaeda foreign fighters in Fallujah, Iraq – a dangerous and deadly mission deemed virtually impossible by many strategic intelligence analysts.  In the ranks of that battalion was Captain Jason C. Brezler, a USMC Reserve Officer and U.S. Naval Academy graduate who had taken a leave of absence as an FDNY firefighter to again lead Marines in harm’s way.

When Brezler returned home in the summer of 2007, he spent many long nights reflecting on the Fallujah experience.  His reflections of battlefield leadership offered overwhelming parallels to advancing discipline, survival and leadership in firefighting operations.  It was during this period that Brezler’s trusted patrol navigator, Corporal Bill Cahir, encouraged him to apply the harsh but important lessons of combat to the fireground. Consequently, Leadership Under Fire was born.  

In 2012, Leadership Under Fire, Inc. was officially formed when Brezler assembled a group of young service-oriented men from various backgrounds and with wide ranging operational experiences.  The Leadership Under Fire team is reinforced by a mentor team of experienced and accomplished fire officers, several of whom are also former Marines.
 


The mission of Leadership Under Fire, Inc. is “to contribute to the technical, physical and mental development of our nation’s firefighters and officers through rigorous and forward-thinking conferences, presentations and tactical training programs in order to advance survival, discipline and leadership with those who have been called to serve in today’s fire service.”  



In August 2009, Sergeant Bill “Werewolf” Cahir, the same Marine who had been so instrumental in the Leadership Under Fire concept, was killed in action in Helmand Province, Afghanistan. Brezler thought it only appropriate to create an initiative that not only honors Bill's service and sacrifice, but his firm belief in higher education for those dedicated to civic service.  




Subsequently, the Bill “Werewolf” Cahir Initiative was created. The program affords post-9/11 military veterans pursuing academic study pertinent to fire and rescue service the opportunity to attend Leadership Under Fire, Inc. conferences and tactical training events at no expense.  This initiative is a win for the fire service, America’s  military veterans, and higher education. It ensures that Bill’s legacy of service and sacrifice lives on.  Hope For The Warriors® enables the financial aspect of this initiative through the organization’s college initiative program.

On October 27, 2012, Leadership Under Fire held its inaugural conference, entitled Making Yourself Hard to Kill, in Philadelphia, PA.  The conference focused on the mental aspect and survival mindset involved with firefighting.

The event included a “Survivor Panel” involving reflections from firefighters who had been forced to jump from burning buildings, a renowned Everest climber, and two U.S. Marines who had been wounded in Iraq;  one who had been shot in the face by an Al Qaeda sniper.  Firefighters and fire officers traveled from 26 states and Canada to attend the day-long seminar.  The audience also included 19 post-9/11 military veterans who attended the banner event under the Werewolf Initiative.

One post-9/11 veteran registrant commented, “I got into the fire service because I missed so very much the camaraderie of Corps.  As a college student, I desperately needed some sort of unit belonging as the student undergrad body is in no way is my peer group. After taking off my uniform I noticed it didn’t take long to start feeling naked and like a sheep in the flock…The Leadership Under Fire conference sparked the fading light in my civilian world; I can honestly say that was the most alive and motivated I felt since leaving the Marine Corps…I hope that I can demonstrate the level of professionalism and high moral conduct of the many speakers present that day in Philadelphia, every single person that spoke that day impacted my outlook on the fire service, my character, and how I needed to live my life with a purpose.”  







Friday, February 22, 2013

Hope Rider

Photo by Sgt. Mallory S. VanderSchans

In December, we shared the exciting news of the grand opening of the Warrior Hope and Care Center aboard Marine Corps Base, Camp Lejeune.  We shared the above photo, showing Marine Corps Commandant, General Amos, admiring a custom-built, custom-hand painted chopper in the lobby of the center.

 


The chopper was built to honor the wounded service members who are utilizing the Warrior Hope and Care Center.  The custom frame was made by Carolina Customs.  The motor and transmission are both from Harley Davidson.  Worked into the décor of the motorcycle are hand grenades on the handlebars; a K-Bar and a Tailgunner Exhaust along the side; 45-caliber bullets on the wheel spokes; and 50-caliber bullets on the down tube.  The seat is covered with camouflage cloth—torn and worn to represent the men and women who have worn the same fabric.  The paint scheme is camo and includes a bald eagle and a vintage Hope For The Warriors® logo. 




The bike was built byThe Chopp Shop in Taylorsville, NC and in 2009, Carolina Thunder Charities donated the motorcycle to Hope For The Warriors®.  We held onto this unique item until the Warrior Hope and Care Center was ready to open. 

Read the blog posting from December to learn more about the Warrior Hope and Care Center.

 




Wednesday, February 20, 2013

Family of a Vet: Podcast


Listen to this podcast on Familyofavet.com to learn more about:
Hope For The Warriors® staff members speak with Debbie Sprague, Wellness & Life Solutions Coach. She specializes in working with spouses of veterans with PTSD. 

Tina Atherall is the executive vice president of Hope For The Warriors® and a licensed social worker.  Tricia Winklosky is a Clinical Health & Wellness Director with Hope For The Warriors® and has her Master of Science in Art Psychotherapy.

Listen or download the podcast.



Tuesday, February 19, 2013

Family of a Vet: What we can learn from other spouses

Today's guest blogger is Debbie Sprague, (www.detours2dreams.comWellness & Life Solutions Coach for Spouses of Veterans with PTSD, Grassroots Volunteer ~ Family of a Vet.  She is also the author of a new book that will be coming out soon, "A Stranger in My Bed: 8 Steps to Getting Your Life Back from the Contagious Effects of Your Veteran's PTSD."

Tina Atherall and Tricia Winklosky, two Hope For The Warriors® staff members, will be on Debbie's podcast tonight.  The show will be on at 7:30 p.m. EST.  Listeners will also have the opportunity to call in and ask questions.  If you miss the show, you will also be able to download the podcast later.  Find the podcast here.



Author's husband, 1969 in Danang, Vietnam

Tears filled the eyes of the Vietnam vets wife as she listened to the pregnant spouse of an Iraq vet.  This young woman was knowledgeable and pro-active in dealing with her veterans PTSD.  They were receiving counseling.  She attended our spouses support group.  She knew what had happened to her husband.

When group ended, two Vietnam Veterans wives remained.  The teary one began sobbing, "If only I had of known when I was her age.  I could have helped him.  I would have stayed.  Why did no one help us to understand?  I loved him.  PTSD destroyed my child’s life."

The other spouses face was red with anger.  "Why did we have to go through this alone?  Why didn’t we get the help that these kids are getting?  I have spent 40 years caring for a man whose body and mind was destroyed in Vietnam, and now I have PTSD as well!  This group is the first place that I have been able to get support.  Why did it take so long when there are so many other women living in the same world that I was? "

Later I asked Kim, the widow of a Korean and Vietnam veteran about her many years of caring for her husband throughout his battle with his PTSD and cancer.  She had always radiated love, joy and happiness to all those around her.  She worked tirelessly in our community on veteran’s issues, and projects.  Her advice was to have compassion, patience, and understanding and just keep loving them.

What advice and wisdom can the spouses of the previous generations of war pass on to today’s spouses and families?  How can our experiences help this generation be protected from the contagious effects of PTSD, and from becoming a victim of caregiver overwhelm?  And from the high divorce rate suffered by our Vietnam veterans with PTSD, who are three times more likely than veterans without PTSD to divorce two or more times, according to the Vietnam Veteran Readjustment Study.



In 2000, I became the fourth wife of one of those Vietnam Veterans.  I had no idea that Vietnam or PTSD had anything to do with his failed marriages.  I knew nothing about PTSD, there was no need, I had married the man of my dreams. He was wonderful and perfectly normal.  As far as I knew, the war had ended for him the day he got on a plane in Vietnam after his second tour of duty.  He arrived at the bus station in his hometown with no “welcome homes” for the young soldier, only his father there to greet him.  Within days, it was time to look for a job and get on with his life, and that’s what he did.

In 2004, our dreams ended.  Vietnam returned with a vengeance 35 years later and threatened to ruin our lives.  He was no longer able to work; he had health complications from exposure to Agent Orange, and was diagnosed with PTSD.  We struggled, our marriage was in crisis.  I became angry, resentful, and depressed… just like him.  I was diagnosed with PTSD, and was advised to divorce him.

But I was determined to stay.  I learned; I sought support. I fought to get my mental, emotional, and physical health back.  I reached out to help other spouses.  We survived.  PTSD will be a constant in our lives, and his health problems will only get worse with time, but our love, marriage and commitment is stronger today than it has ever been.

I would like to share with today’s spouses that there is hope for a bright future with your wounded warrior.  It’s not an easy journey; it takes hard work and commitment.  Understanding, compassion, and patience for yourself and your veteran are essential.  When you use the information and support available to you today, honor your commitment to your veteran, and value your need to maintain your own health and happiness you can create a life for works for you.   It may not be a life that looks “normal” to the outside world but it can be a life richer and better than you ever dreamed possible.
 

Friday, February 15, 2013

Presidents with Military Service

Military Service of the Presidents

(Information from the Smithsonian, National Museum of American History)


 




At this point in our history, a total of 31 American Presidents also served in the military.  Of those,12 reached the level of General.


George WashingtonGeneral and Commander in Chief, Continental Army
1775-1783


 
Thomas JeffersonColonel, Virginia Militia
1770-1779


 
James MadisonColonel, Virginia Militia
1775-1781


 
James MonroeMajor, Continental Army
1775-1778


 
Andrew JacksonMajor General, U.S. Army
1814-1821


 
William Henry HarrisonMajor General, Kentucky Militia
1812-1814


 
John TylerCaptain, Virginia Militia
1812


 
James K. PolkColonel, Tennessee Militia
1821


 
Zachary TaylorMajor General, U.S. Army
1805-1815, 1816-1849


 
Millard FillmoreMajor, Union Continentals (home guard)
1861


 
Franklin PierceBrigadier General, New Hampshire Militia
1846-1848


 
James BuchananPrivate, Pennsylvania Militia
1814


 
Abraham LincolnCaptain, Illinois Militia
1832


 
Andrew JohnsonBrigadier General, U.S. Army (Volunteers)
1862-1865


 
Ulysses S. GrantGeneral, U.S. Army
1866-1869


 
Rutherford B. HayesMajor General, U.S. Army (Volunteers)
1861-1865


 
James A. GarfieldMajor General, U.S. Army (Volunteers)
1861-1863


 
Chester A. ArthurBrigadier General, New York Militia
1858-1863


 
Benjamin HarrisonBrevet Brigadier General, U.S. Army (Volunteers)
1862-1865


 
William McKinleyBrevet Major, U.S. Army (Volunteers)
1861-1865


 
Theodore RooseveltColonel, U.S. Army (Volunteers)
1898


 
Harry S. TrumanColonel, Army Officer Reserve Corps
1919-1945


 
Dwight D. EisenhowerGeneral of the Army, U.S. Army
1915-1948, 1951-1952


 
John F. KennedyLieutenant, U.S. Naval Reserve
1941-1945


 
Lyndon B. JohnsonCommander, U.S. Naval Reserve
1940-1964


 
Richard M. NixonCommander, U.S. Naval Reserve
1942-1966


 
Gerald R. Ford, JrLieutenant Commander, U.S. Naval Reserve
1942-1946


 
Jimmy CarterLieutenant, U.S. Navy
1946-1953


 
Ronald ReaganCaptain, U.S. Army
1942-1945


 
George BushLieutenant (junior grade), U.S. Navy
1942-1945


 
George W. BushFirst Lieutenant, Texas Air National Guard
1968-1973